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Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you
Shall I stay? Would it be a sin If I can't help falling in love with you?
Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes Some things are meant to be Take my hand, take my whole life too For I can't help falling in love with you
Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes Some things are meant to be Take my hand, take my whole life too For I can't help falling in love with you For I can't help falling in love with you Elvis, "Can't Help Falling in Love" Arlene was working at an ice plant on Alemeda street and Ted's job for the county was only a few blocks away. Working only blocks apart, bowling dates turned into lunch dates. Ted spent every spare moment courting Arlene. Tragedy struck as their courtship progressed and Arlene lost her job. She confessed to Ted that without work she would soon be moving back to Bakersfield. Ted realized he could not live another day without Arlene and immediately asked for her hand in marriage. Before Arlene officially said yes, she brought Ted to Bakersfield to meet the Cruz clan. After a few whirlwind months, Ted sat across from her imposing father, Grandpa Carl at the family home in East Bakersfield and asked for Arlene's hand. On November 11th 1961 Judge Noriega married Ted Jiron and Arlene Cruz inside of her childhood home. After almost six decades the Jiron family has grown beyond their 3 children Teddy Jiron, Gina Hertz and Joey Jiron; later Ted became "Papo" to 9 grandchildren (Genine, Chris, Tawny, Nick, Jake, Sydney, Joey, Annette, Molly) and 8 great grand children (Anjel, Inara, Nathan, Jett, Jax, Susie, River, Cali). After they retired Ted and Arlene and their cockapoo Taffy moved to the Rio Bravo Country Club. They stayed busy with their grandchildren, church and playing golf. For many years together they coordinated Eucharistic ministers at St. Joseph's church. With my grandmother by his side today my grandfather Ted Jiron took his last breathe. I went back and reread this story that they both helped me write almost 10 years ago. I am amazed that in a dark smoke filled bowling alley Ted Jiron saw my grandma and just knew. The certainty and degree to which he loved my grandma inspires me even on this dark day.
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The Boone family describes what they recommend you play while social distancing for forced family fun during this Coronavirus quarantine. In this episode we describe our current COVID challenges, favorite board game memory & what campaign we suggest you play while under quarantine. The teenagers pick is Splendor and discussed playing games in NOLA at our favorite local bookstore Tubby and Coos. The boy chose Over Lords of Infamy, describes his love of Corgis and his first convention "Dragon and Meeple." Dr. CCB discusses their current family campaign of Clank Legacy, and her favorite gaming memories of Dungeons and Dragons and Banana-a-Gram. Mr. Boone talks about his favorite gaming experiences that mostly exclude his wife. He advocates for Chaos in the Old World, Seventh Continent and My Little Scythe. Chronicles of Crime, 7th Continent, Time Stories, Clank Legacy, Pandemic Legacy, Risk Legacy and Charterstone make the list for our recommended campaigns. The Bakersfield Boone recommend that you do not need more than one game you might just need game that scaffolds skills to get you through social distancing. Link to Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/board-game-in-place/id1508343393 April 16, 2020 John Boone, Chris Cruz-Boone, Inara Chris Cruz-Boone, Nathan Chris Cruz-BooneThe Boone family describes what they recommend you play while social distancing for forced family fun during this Coronavirus quarantine. The teenagers picks: Disney Villainous and Just One. The boy chose Quacks of Quedlinburg and Marvel Champions. Dr. CCB discusses their current family campaign of Clank Legacy and her two picks Firefly The Game and Lords of Waterdeep. Mr. Boone explains why people who like procedural shows should try out the game Chronicles of Crime and one his classroom favorites Space Base. We each defend our choices which have different price points and all of which can be played by someone just beginning the board game hobby. PODCAST EPISODE TWO: Board Game in Place In the whirlwind of the last 12 days of captivity and crisis teaching I could not recall if I shared the iCloud recordings of all my class session. As I sorted through each class & confirmed that each hyperlink found its intended recipient I noticed a disturbing trend that appeared in every single video: I had worn the same flannel shirt. I will be the first to admit that over the last few weeks I quickly digressed from jeans, to yoga pants and shift dresses. I love to work and teach in the early morning and after I make my morning tea, prop open the door for my pup & my eyes adjust to the blinding computer light I vaguely recall feeling a chill and reaching for something to cover my arms. This is the only flannel shirt I own and I bought it a few months ago for a weekend backpacking trek planned for myself and my daughter this Spring. Unfortunately, like her choir trip to Disneyland & her uncle’s wedding, our backpacking trip has been postponed to an undetermined date. Somehow this one article of clothing triumphed and unlike its compatriots intended for Easter Sunday and upcoming school performance days that remain dangling on the felt hangers where they were so carefully placed, it has escaped closet purgatory. This shirt is soft like a second season blanket and structured for a female body. When I wear this shirt I feel like a person and not a shut-in that threw on a pancho (no offense if you have been teaching in a pancho, I am sure it is lovely). Without realizing, this large plaid print of deep burgundy and dark navy has become my armor during the Covid-19 teaching battle; it has helped me feel less exposed as I teach with all the excitement and fervor I can muster to students who often give me a half-hearted reception while still laying in prone positions in their beds. I had set a clear expectation that students must show their faces in our digital meetings but I did not specify that they must leave their beds, brush their teeth or enter the virtual world with the same dignity as a face-to-face classroom; as a woman who has worn the same shirt for several weeks am I remiss to make such a request? This conundrum seems to exemplify the delicate dance of crisis teaching, of wanting to challenge my students and myself to be our best but realizing the best for today might just be showing up at all. After watching morning mass from bed I decided to write this post on a lazy Sunday found an unexpected plea in my inbox from a Nursing professor at Mt Saint Antonio. She had been trying to plan a ConferZoom session in Canvas and accidently set-up the meeting for 1am instead of 1pm and she could not figure out how to fix it. She stumbled on to an instructional video I posted on YouTube and decided to reach out. At the end of her email she posted her cell number so I gave her a call, we had a great chat & I helped her fix her meeting. After our exchange I went to YouTube with a vague recollection of a tutorial I recorded in a rush before I departed for what I did not know then would be my last drive to Arvin this semester. The crowded white bloom of the almond trees and rows of bee boxes is so clear in my mind from that last drive. Recording that 5 minutes video was less clear & I decided to check YouTube and see what I wore for that video? The video now has more than 1k hits, more than anything I have every posted online, and it marks the first appearance of the now infamous flannel. My shirt is a great uniform for that I recommend anyone wear while they: weep, grade, lecture, pet a dog, prepare meals, comfort kiddos that miss their friends, listen to falling rain, binge watch John Oliver/Tiger King/ Boss Baby, play board games, and record quick videos for YouTube. |
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